JL Merrow

Many thanks to everyone who read the posts, commented, and entered the giveaway!  I was both touched and encouraged by the comments and emails I received.

But now, (un)fashionably late as usual, I can announce the winner of the giveaway – winner’s choice of 2 ebooks from my back list. Courtesy of random.org, the winner is…. Christy T.

Thanks again to everyone who played!

Today is the penultimate day of the Hard Tail blog tour, and I’m over at It’s Raining Men with a terrible confession about what I used to do for a living!

Why not pop on over and share what uncool jobs you’ve had?

All commenters on the blog tour posts will be entered into a draw for winner’s choice of an e-book from my backlist, PLUS a gift certificate for $25 from Amazon (or the e-book retailer of your choice). The more blog tour posts you comment on, the more chances you get! See my website here for full itinerary. Good luck!

The L Project’s début single It Does Get Better was produced to raise money to combat homophobic and transphobic bullying, A group of the most talented UK lesbian performers and their friends donated their time and resources free to create this uplifting, highly acclaimed single/EP.

The song made number 1 in Amazon UK’s Best Sellers Rock and Folk Charts – please consider downloading a copy from Amazon.co.uk, Amazon.com or iTunes.  For less than £1, you get a great single – and can help make a difference to the lives of young LGBTQ people.

Proceeds will go to Stonewall and Diversity Role Models.

For more information about the work of Diversity Role Models, click on the above link or see my blog post here.

Today, May 17^th, is International Day Against Homophobia.

Two thirds of LGBT kids and teens in Britain suffer homophobic bullying in school. They are three times as likely to commit suicide as a result.

Straight kids suffer too—either from fearing to be open about LGBT friends and relatives, or from pressure to conform to gender stereotypes.

Kids pick up on prejudiced attitudes from all sorts of places—and all too often, they lack a positive LGBT role model in their lives.

I’d like to share with you some of the work being done to change this by Diversity Role Models. DRM is a registered charity that was set up following the suicide of a fifteen-year-old boy who was bullied because he was perceived to be gay.

The charity sends speakers – “Role Models”- into schools to run workshops on the subject of homophobia. The Role Models speak frankly about their own lives, answer questions, promote discussion—and show the kids that LGBT people really aren’t any different from anyone else.

The results they achieve are truly outstanding.

Meeting role models who explain their experiences and life stories helped many of our students understand the bullying and difficulties that many LGBT people face as they make the journey to adulthood.  This process of ‘usualising’ being LGBT allowed many students to question previously held beliefs and develop their confidence to reject and challenge the casual use of ‘gay’ as a term of abuse…

Since the workshops, many of the students who attended them have talked to staff about diversity and difference – and are clearly opposed to the discrimination against LGBT people that still exists in British society – Assistant Head, South London Secondary School

The role models were a complete revelation ranging from an actor in a well known TV soap to a senior vice- president of a major bank. They talked about their experiences and answered questions with ease.
The students got so much from it but gave a lot to the session too. They were open about their feelings and thoughts on a range of issues and talked about the experiences in their lives and families – Assistant Head, North London Secondary School

You can see what the students think about the workshops here – sample comments:
“before I thought gay people and lesbien (sic) people are disgusting now I don’t, I think there the same people as others”
“before I was a little scared and uncomfortable but now I feel better”

The results speak for themselves:
In schools where homophobic bullying is tackled, LGBT students are 60% less likely to be bullied.

Diversity Role Models, a charity launched last year to tackle homophobic bullying in schools, announced today 94.5 percent of students who took part in a workshop with a positive role model said they would treat LGBT people better as a result.

Similarly, 91 percent of students filling in the feedback questionnaires after a workshop said they would try to use the word ‘gay’ in a pejorative way less often in future – Pink News, 2^nd May 2012.

This work needs funding. If you, or perhaps the organisation you work for, can afford to commit to a monthly donation to Diversity Role Models, it will be invaluable in helping them increase the number of workshops they can run. Any gift will be very gratefully received, and will make a difference in young people’s lives.

Every penny helps us put role models in front of young people. This can save lives

If you are able to help, please donate at: http://www.charitygiving.co.uk/donate/diversityrolemodel

Registered charity number: 1142458

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I’m offering a giveaway for the Hop Against Homophobia  – this is separate from the Hard Tail blog tour giveaway.  The prize: winner’s choice of any 2 e-books from my backlist (see my website for a list). All you need to do to enter is send me an email on jl(dot)merrow(at)gmail(dot)com with DIVERSITY ROLE MODELS in the subject line.  I’ll make the draw on 21st May, at around noon, GMT.

You wouldn’t like him when he’s angry. Or would you?

Today I’m over at Chicks & Dicks as part of their Men in Uniform month, talking about karate black belts. Why not pop along and share your thoughts here?

All commenters on the blog tour posts will be entered into a draw for winner’s choice of an e-book from my backlist, PLUS a gift certificate for $25 from Amazon (or the e-book retailer of your choice). The more blog tour posts you comment on, the more chances you get! See my website here for full itinerary. Good luck!

…over at Top 2 Bottom Reviews, where I’m musing on people’s reactions to a mutation in the MC1R protein affecting 1-2% of the world’s population.  That’s right, red hair.

 Hottie or nottie? You decide.

All commenters on the blog tour posts will be entered into a draw for winner’s choice of an e-book from my backlist, PLUS a gift certificate for $25 from Amazon (or the e-book retailer of your choice). The more blog tour posts you comment on, the more chances you get! See my website here for full itinerary. Good luck!

Today I’ve popped around the corner to be grilled by Brie (okay, that sounds like one of those nightmares where your food starts eating you…)  Why not come along to Romance Around the Corner and find out how Hard Tail came into being? And if you’ve got any questions of your own, feel free to ask!

All commenters on the blog tour posts will be entered into a draw for winner’s choice of an e-book from my backlist, PLUS a gift certificate for $25 from Amazon (or the e-book retailer of your choice). The more blog tour posts you comment on, the more chances you get! See my website here for full itinerary. Good luck!

As part of Dreamspinner’s fifth birthday, all books (including in stock paperbacks) by the authors who signed with them in their third year of business will be discounted 30% through midnight on Saturday, May 17.

And here’s some suggestions for your reading pleasure

And if those don’t tempt you, here are some other authors included in the sale:

Andi Anderson, Jae Ashley, Rayne Auster, Lenore Black, Scarlet Blackwell, Anne Brooke, H.J. Brues, Brackley Burke, Mary Calmes, Tessa Cárdenas, Heidi Champa, R.W. Clinger, Rachelle Cochran,Diana Copland, J. Crow, Heidi Cullinan, Jana Denardo, Sophia Deri-Bowen, Sonia Devereaux, Libby Drew, Anne Dudley, Chelle Dugan, Andy Eisenberg, Henri Fer, Jamie Freeman, Lacey-Anne Frye, Lyn Gala, L.A. Gilbert, Roland Graeme, Cornelia Grey, Julie Lynn Hayes, S. Reesa Herberth, Violet Hilton, Jan Irving, Felicitas Ivey, Dawn Kimberly Johnson, Joanne Kells, V.B. Kildaire, L.J. LaBarthe, Amy Lane,Shawn Lane, Trina Lane, Sam C. Leonhard, Anna J. Linden, Taylor Lochland, Amylea Lyn, EM Lynley,D.W. Marchwell, Rowan McAllister, Brooke McKinley, Kate McMurray, JL Merrow, Patric Michael, Margaret Mills, Ellie Moonwater, Emily Moreton, Maggie Morton, Josephine Myles, Mallory Path, J.R. Patrick, Jeff Pearce, Devon Rhodes, G.R. Richards, Kate Roman, Persephone Roth, Linda Reilly, Lily Sawyer, RJ Scott, Rosina Scott, Marie Sexton, Barbara Sheridan, Aundrea Singer, K.Z. Snow, Jillian Snyder, Rowan Speedwell, Jay Starre, Rowena Sudbury, Lori Toland, Carolyn Levine Topol, Jonathan Treadway, Bryl R. Tyne, Matthew Vandrew, Anel Viz, Aleksandr Voinov, Edward von Behrer, Ashleigh Walton, Tedy Ward,Nessa L. Warin, Sarah Ann Watts, Rachel West, Ellen Whitehall, A. Willingham, L.A. Witt, Serena Yates,Cari Z., J.A. Zecca.

Today I’m visiting with my very talented friend Josephine Myles, having a good old snigger over some mountain biking terminology I was introduced to when researching Hard Tail.

Check it out here: Bonking, Grunts and Grinders

And share some innuendo-rich jargon of your own!

All commenters on the blog tour posts will be entered into a draw for winner’s choice of an e-book from my backlist, PLUS a gift certificate for $25 from Amazon (or the e-book retailer of your choice). The more blog tour posts you comment on, the more chances you get! See my website here for full itinerary. Good luck!

Today I’m over at Joyfully Jay, talking about bringing back my Pricks and Pragmatism lovers Luke and Russell for a cameo role in Hard Tail.

Check it out here: From Major to Minor

All commenters on the blog tour posts will be entered into a draw for winner’s choice of an e-book from my backlist, PLUS a gift certificate for $25 from Amazon (or the e-book retailer of your choice). The more blog tour posts you comment on, the more chances you get! See my website here for full itinerary. Good luck!